| Location | York |
| Age | 18 years |
| Cause of Death | Other Disease |
| Date of Birth | 03/03/1991 |
| Date of Death | 13/11/2009 |
| Visitors | 2,113 since 15/11/2009 |
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Rory was admitted to hospital on Friday 24th October 2009 with vomiting. He rapidly deteriorated and went into a coma. Eventually he was diagnosed with severe ADEM probably triggered by microplasma. Rory died aged 18 on Friday 13th November 2009.
He was the youngest of my 5 children, my baby. I am devasted at losing him and just trying to get through each day as best I can. In fact, I am still in shock. I miss his cheeky smile, his infectious laugh and the way he always called me Ma. The house is so quiet without him. He had just passed his written driving test and all he wanted was to pass his practical driving test and to buy a car. I still cannot believe he has gone. I love you Rory, my golden boy, today and forever. XXXXXX
LOTS OF LOVE RORY
Life doesn't stand still
it carries on,
And you are with us
all along.
Deep down inside
we are not apart.
You are with us every day..
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.......(""""") With love always
.•♥*˜҈.•♥*˜҈. LOVE THERESA X
You Matter To Me XXX
You Matter To Me
The dishes pile up you know it don't matter
The house is a mess, everything is scattered
I don't care about that, just leave me alone
Let the doorbell ring, don't answer the phone
Let me drown my sorrow in just one more drink
It numbs the pain, I don't want to think...
"Mum, I don't care about dishes or the shape the house is in
It's you that I care for, I know where you've been
It killed you to lose me, mum, I was gone so quick
But mum I'm free now, I can never be sick
I play with the angels and watch over you
Mum make me proud of the things that you do
Your tears can fill rivers they fall like rain
But mum please listen and let me heal your pain
You used to pray to the lord my soul to keep
You did it each night before I went to sleep
It worked mum, it worked like a charm
I am in heaven mum, in loving arms
I know your arms are empty but you have much love to give
It's hard for you, mum, but your life you must live
Put the bottle away and look to the sky
That cloud is for you, the white one up high
Do you remember the rainbow I showed you this spring
Or the bird in the treetop with joy he did sing
My gifts for you mum since you gave me so much
I do miss you mum, I miss your sweet touch
But I am with you mum every where that you go
But you must listen to see me this much I know
Your sorrow is deep like a canyon of clay
But don't slide to the bottom, just make it today
You won't see me mum in the bottom of a glass
Or in the pills that they gave you, they simply don't last
I am here, mum, in the wind that blows on your face
I am song you hear, mum, in our special place
Ma I am here but please listen to me
Your heart holds me tight and there I will always be
But I send you signs too, mum, but your head must be clear
It's my way to show you mum, that I am always near."
~renee williams
From Book of Interviews with Dalai Lama
Do you have any suggestions about how to handle a great personal loss, such as the loss of a child?
“For those people who do not believe in rebirth, then I think there are still some simple ways to help deal with the loss. First, they could reflect that if they worried too much, allowing themselves to be too overwhelmed by the sense of loss and sorrow, and if they carried on with that feeling of being overwhelmed, not only would it be very destructive and harmful to themselves, ruining their health, but also it would not have any benefit to the person who has passed away.
The best way to keep a memory of that person, the best remembrance, is to see if you can carry on the wishes of that person.
Initially, of course, feelings of grief and anxiety are a natural human response to loss. But if you allow these feelings of loss and worry to persist, there’s a danger; if these feelings are left unchecked, they can lead to a kind of self-absorption. A situation where the focus becomes your own self. And when that happens you become overwhelmed by the sense of loss, and you get a feeling that it’s only you who is going through this. Depression sets in. But in reality there are others who will be going through the same kind of experience. So, if you find yourself worrying too much, it may help to think of the other people who have similar or even worse tragedies. Once you realise that then you no longer feel isolated, as if you have been single pointedly picked out. That can offer you some kind of condolence.
From Kerry - Rory's Sister
We wake, if ever we wake, to the silence of God. And then, when we wake to the deep shores of time uncreated, then when the dazzling dark breaks over the far slopes of time, then it's time to toss things, like our reason, and our will; then it's time to break our necks for home.
There are no events but thoughts and the heart's hard turning, the heart's slow learning where to love and whom. The rest is merely gossip, and tales for other times - Anne Dillard
Written by Kerry - Rory's Sister
Sometimes I dream of you and you are young and small. When I do we walk together, laughing. You were my catalyst and I want to see the world for you. You broke my heart but I still carry you in it. Take my hand little one and lets wander and make mischief together.
LOTS OF LOVE RORY
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Eternal Light
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Heaven
If we could visit heaven,ღ♥ღ
Even for a day,ღ♥ღ
Maybe for a moment,ღ♥ღ
The pain would go away,ღ♥ღ
I'd put my arms around you,ღ♥ღ
And whisper words so true,ღ♥ღ
That living life without you,ღ♥ღ
Is the hardest thing to do.ღ♥ღ
No matter how we spend our days,ღ♥ღ
No matter what we do,ღ♥ღ
No morning dawns or evening falls,ღ♥ღ
When we don't think of you xx.ღ♥ღ
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LOVE THERESA X
My Golden Boy
"Angel"
Tear drops, slow and steady,
The pain so real and true,
God took another angel,
And that angel, dear, was you.
Angel wings, upon the clouds,
Your body softly sleeps,
Hush now little angel,
No more tears you have to weep.
little prayers,are sent to you,
The short life you led;
Your family will never forget you,
So rest your little head.
I know God will look after you,
Now you are truly alive,
Your spirit soars beyond the moon,
Your legacy will survive.
You’re beautiful, you’re endless,
Now stretch your wings and fly,
Your loved by so many,
It will never be goodbye.
Close your pretty eyes,
No more tears,just go and rest,
Let your soul lie peacefully,
we know you did your best.
I am wearing a pair of shoes. They are ugly shoes. Uncomfortable shoes. I hate my shoes. Each day I wear them, and each day I wish I had another pair. Some days my shoes hurt so bad that I do not think I can take another step.. Yet, I continue to wear them. I get funny looks wearing these shoes. They are looks of sympathy. I can tell in others eyes that they are glad they are my shoes and not thei...rs. They never talk about my shoes. To learn how awful my shoes are might make them uncomfortable. To truly understand these shoes you must walk in them. But, once you put them on, you can never take them off. I now realize that I am not the only one who wears these shoes. There are many pairs in this world. Some women are like me and ache daily as they try to walk in them. Some have learned how to walk in them so that they don't hurt quite so much. Some have worn the shoes so long that days will go by before they think about how much they hurt. No woman deserves to wear these shoes. Yet, because of these shoes I am a stronger woman. These shoes have given me the strength to face anything. They have made me who I am.. I will forever walk in the shoes of a woman who has lost a child.
LOTS OF LOVE RORY
Deep In My Heart... ♥ღ♥
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.....................▲.............. Your Loving Memory Is kept
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.................▲.......... When I Feel The Need
....................▼... I Turn The Key – Unlock The Memories
......................▲.... I Relive Memories Of Time Gone By
.. .................▼....... I Feel You Once Again By My Side
................. ▲.................With These Memories I Can Smile
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......... ....▲▼▲.....▼....I Feel The Love In Our Memories
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Copyright� Leza 26/12/2010
LOTS OF LOVE RORY
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